Nearly every family suffers from a poor relationship with one or more members. Our families provide us with a hall of mirrors in which to see a reflection of ourselves from every angle. Of course we usually deny any similarity between them and us, especially if the relationship with them is dysfunctional.
We say: "They are the problem."
We think: "It's their problem."
Except that it hurts us, so to that extent it's our problem too.
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