How long are you prepared to wait?
If you believe it's all up to your partner to change the state of your relationship, this suggests you do not take responsibility for your own happiness. You may blame them for their behaviour towards you, but this will not encourage them to change it.
Have you ever successfully changed anyone other than yourself?
Others will change as you do.
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If you really think your partner is solely responsible for the state of your relationship, choose their behaviour that you wish was different...
They won't talk to me
They are unfaithful to me
They are insensitive to my needs
They are abusive towards me
They are selfish
They do not listen to me
They are more interested in things other than me
They are not supportive
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