Our children can teach us so much about ourselves...
...even when their behaviour is outrageous. You have to admit that between genetics and parental influence, the way they behave is largely down to you and your partner.
Whenever you find yourself saying, " I just don't understand them!" take this as your cue to recognise an aspect of yourself previously hidden from you.
You may say, "I would die rather than behave like that!" This only goes to show the extent to which you have repressed an emotion.
Others will change as you do.
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